.Monday, June 13, 2005 ' 10:17 am Y
A special reply 2 teE.
i may not noe hu u r.
where ur frm.
ur age.
ur character.
bt i noe dat ur nt selfish.
i haf no rite 2 say dat u r.
bcuz d moment u tagged at my blog sharing ur worries wif me.
it proves dat u still care abt ur relationship.
n dats a gd sign =)
relationships r full of problems.
arguements n watnots.
n yes i admit we ladies haf diz habit of giving up.
guys too.
dey're no angels mind u.hee.
how u handle d relationship actuali determines ur happiness wif dat person.
if u realli2 love him,i dun c d reason y u shud give up over arguements?
we shud onli let major2 problems like oh u caught him red-handed ,sleeping wif another woman etc.
ahh in dat case u haf d rite 2 let go.
bt by having doz frequent arguements n end up losing each other?
gal im tellin u its nt worth it.
den mite as well u argue wif him rite at d very beginning n just break up. true?
u need 2 ask urself.
do u love him?
wad does he mean 2 u?
can u imagine a future wif him?
can u live wif him?
or rather.
without him?
wud it b d same?
women r complicated species.
sumtimes we dun even noe wad we want in life.
sumtimes we're too blind 2 c d best life partner hu's actuali rite in front of us.
we often let go d best thing dats ever happened 2 us.
n end up regretting.
n dat,
is sumthin i dun wan 2 happen 2 u.
oh anyways.
first things first.
dreams r juz dreams.
u shud nvr base ur decisions on dem.
so wad if u dreamt dat u lost him?
dat shudnt wori u actuali.
dats a sign 2 tell u 2 cherish him even more.
n dats dat.
im a lil worried dat my entry made d 2 of u argue?
i wasnt tryin 2 influence gals 2 let go of their bfs!
yeah i noe ur worried.
i am too.
relationships dun seem 2 last as long as we wanted.
bt surely u'll give it a try rite?
bcuz u still do love him.
dun let ur worries take over urself.
let fate take its course.
u shud simply focus on working on d relationship.
loving him each day like derz no tmr.
keep d tot 0f breaking up at d far end of ur mind.
talkin 2 ur guy abt diz matter will definitely cause him 2 b annoyed i guess.
guys dun like it when gals talk abt break-ups.
when gals worry too much dat dey wun last long.
so basically.
dun wori so much.
n nvr let arguements lidat end such a memorable relationship.
u started a journey wif him.
u choose d ending.
no one can force u if u wanna let go of him.
tho it'll b sad.
whenever u feel like giving up.
stop n think back.
its totalli ur decision.
i can only advise.
tc gal.
=)
Ladysweet Yani